Posted on Fri, Oct. 17, 2003
Dear Abby | Teen tutor worries about failing friend DEAR ABBY: I am in middle school and have been helping my friend, "Heidi," with her schoolwork. When Heidi first asked for help, I didn't mind. But now she expects me to do all her assignments. I don't want to help someone who doesn't make an effort, but I feel responsible because Heidi's grades are falling fast. What should I do? Boy With a Big Problem on His Hands DEAR BOY: First of all, stop shouldering burdens that are not your own. If your friend fails a subject because she has not completed her assignment, the responsibility is hers - not yours.